Thursday, February 9, 2012

An Unwanted Journey

Our family is getting ready to embark on a journey that I had hoped we never would have to travel. But, sometimes things in life happen that we don't like, we didn't ask for, and we don't really know what to do about. Over the course of the last week, I have had to undergo some testing. And today, after having a biopsy, the words of Martina McBride rang through my head: "Cancer don't discriminate- or care if you're just 38 (or 32), with 3 kids to raise..."

The official report is not back yet, but the surgeon talked to Jamie and I today about the lump I found in my left breast. It doesn't look good. Based on the size, the shape, and the tissue that was removed, they are almost positive that I have breast cancer. They are so sure, in fact, that they have already spoken to an oncologist, who is ready to take me and begin treatments as soon as the report makes it official.


At this point that is all we know. I don't know exactly what kind of treatment plan options I will be given, but the words immediate chemotherapy have been mentioned a time or two.


Our famlies know, and tonight we sat down and told the girls. Needless to say, everyone is upset, but we are all hopeful and staying positive.

I am asking you to please pray for our family as we begin this journey. I know it won't be easy, but I know we can get through this- with God, and with the huge support system that we have around us.

13 comments:

Jana Aydelott-Spears said...

I am so sorry to hear of your current situation... I saw a lead on facebook from my friends, Amanda Mayberry & Devin Pickard. I had cancer @ 33. It was a rough journey, but I did survive. If you need a shoulder, or just want to talk, you can call me at any time. 931-729-3990
Jana Aydelott-Spears

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry you all are going down this road, too. My prayer is that God will see you through this, too. Please keep us posted and know that we love you and are praying for you. God is so good.

Love always,
Kim and Tim Henderson

Anonymous said...

Andrea you are such a strong woman; physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I know God is good. He will heal you. My prayers are will you and your family.
Andrea Rhodes

Hallie Madewell said...

Andrea- I'm so sorry you and your family have to embark on this journey but I do know what a strong/courageous woman you are and what a mighty God we have. You will be in my thoughts and prayers daily.

Anonymous said...

Saw your blog through a friend on Facebook. I don't know you, but wanted you to know I'm praying for you and your family. Stay strong.

Anonymous said...

You are in our prayers.

Dwayne and Glenna Fulks

Anonymous said...

Wow, hard to know what to say. Before we found out Curt had cancer, at age 42, we would hear of other people having cancer and we would pray for them, feel sorry for them, and see if there was anything we could do, etc. Now we cry for them, sometimes with them. It was not until the words "YOU" have cancer that it took on a whole new meaning. I can tell you what WE went through, but this time it is YOU. It hits you full in the face. It isn't suppose to happen to a faithful, young, healthy person. However, being faithful, young, and otherwise healthy is an advantage. It will be tough, but you have your family and friends and God to help you through. We love you Andrea and you can count on us to beg for God to help you all through this in the easiest way possible. May the only hair you lose be under your arms and on your legs!!!! :)

Anonymous said...

I don't know you personally, but being from Centerville, I know your family, & I have heard many people talk about your sweet girls, & precious miracle of a little boy. I choked up reading your story, & it breaks my heart that someone else has been diagnosed with this ugly disease. I will pray for you, & for your family day in & day out. I know your faith, & our God will pull you through, even on your hardest days.

Anonymous said...

I believe you have everything you need to cope with this new turn of events. You said it yourself, "God is bigger than doctors" or medical diagnoses. You are young, strong, healthy, full of faith and good common sense, and surrounded by so many people who love you and are praying for you and your family. I would encourage you to be pro-active about this cancer and do research. There is lots of information out there that can help. Then follow your own
instincts because you have good ones. We love you. Mary Jane

bettie gobble said...

Andrea...Remember and hang on to the truth of God's faithfulness over Anderson. I don't have to remind you we serve a God WHO IS ABLE....OVER ANYTHING!!! How I wish your story didn't have this new chapter in it....but I claim in the Name of Jesus that not only will you fight the good fight ....you will win!With each turn of the page and each step of the journey I ask God to write upon your heart and Jamie's heart.. TRUST! You are strong, you are determined, you are young and you will defeat this disease!!We claim it in the Name of Jesus. We are already standing in the gap...just like with Anderson...and are part of your family and friends who will do whatever we are privileged to do during this time. Thanking God in advance for all He is about to accomplish! We love you all, Bettie and Joe and family! Col 3:17

Anonymous said...

Andrea,
I just wanted you to know that you have been on my heart all day today! I can't imagine what you and Jamie are going through. Please know that I am praying for you. I also wanted to tell you that music is a powerful force, as I'm sure you know, when you are in need of a "pick me up." Mandisa has a great song called "He is With You". Check it out if you get a chance. Please let me know if I can do anything. God Bless!
Marissa Tidwell

jill upchurch said...

Oh, Andrea...I am speechless. Truly speechless. All I have are prayers. Lord, please lend Andrea all the strength she needs right this very moment. I ask that all who surround her family be "all in" for their every need...sensitive to their every need before they even know they exist. Give insight to the medical teams to know exactly how to treat Andrea. But most of all let her experience love in a way that can only come from you dear Lord. Thank you Andrea, for your transparency in this. Thank you for allowing us to share your burden with you. Jill Upchurch

Emily said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you all begin this journey together. I read your story through a friend's Facebook post(Jill Upchurch). I may not know you or your family but we have a common trust in God and I would be honored to lift you and you family up along with all of the people I have seen posting on your wall. Thank you Jill for sharing this family's story. Many prayers being said!

Sincerely,
Emily Boyd-Suter