Tuesday, June 8, 2010

At a loss for words...

This is Jamie. What an amazing journey this has been, and it has only just begun!

I want to express my sincere appreciation for the prayers, calls, comments, and text messages we have received. I am humbled and to be honest at a loss for words. I do not feel adequate nor deserving to be blessed with a beautiful healthy family. God is truly in control and knows our every need!

From the time Anderson was born, I have read all the comments on this blog as well as the comments on Andrea's Facebook. There has not been a day go by that I wasn't moved to tears. Tears of joy, sadness, and love.

I am amazed at the support we have received since we were first told about the condition. You guys have stood beside us through this journey and it is my hope you will continue. Your beautiful comments, encouraging words, and most of all your prayers to our GREAT GOD has been so powerful!

We could not have asked for today to have gone any better. I am anxious to get home and spend time with our beautiful girls. Can't wait to see what God has in store for Anderson. All praise and glory be to our God!- Jamie

Of couse I have to add my two cents worth...

Just as Jamie said, we are completely humbled by the love, support, and prayers that we are receiving from so many people. The past week has been full of ups and downs, but just being able to log on and read the comments on the blog and facebook always lifted our spirits. We knew that with that many prayers going up on Anderson't behalf, things were going to be okay.

I am so glad that I have been able to share this experience...when we first found out that something wasn't right on the 20 week ultrasound, I really debated on whether or not to share it with everyone. No one ever wants to hear that something is wrong with their baby- so the first reaction is to try to keep it quiet so that no one will know. But something told me that I needed to share it so that the few friends and family that we had who read the blog could pray for the baby. As I sit here tonight, I know that was the best decision ever. We absolutely could not have made it through this pregnancy or through the events of the past week without each one of you by our side throughout the journey. And this journey is not over. In fact, it is just beginning.

One thing that I want to ask from each of you. Jamie and I are determined that we are not going to "label" Anderson with any type of disability or say that he "can't" or "won't" be able to do certain things. We are going to allow him to prove to both us and the doctors just exactly what he CAN do. We don't want him treated differently than any other baby. We don't want special attention. What we do ask is for your continued prayers, continued support as we know we will face challenges, and continued understanding. We are going to take one day at a time. That's all we can do. We refuse to sit and worry about the future. What we will do is get all of the help and support that we can for Anderson and work with him to make sure we give him every opportunity to have a wonderful life.

So far tonight, Anderson is doing great. He has been able to drink 2 bottles since surgery and is scheduled for his 3rd at 11pm. They weren't sure if he would be able to drink at all, so this progress is wonderful! Right now he is resting peacefully, but they are having to keep him on medicine because they said he will have some pretty bad headaches for awhile from the release of the pressure on the brain. So tonight we pray for a restful, painless night for him. We pray that tomorrow will bring more progress and that we will hear the words "going home" in the near future. Thanks again...we will never be able to thank each of you enough. God is great and he has proven his healing power once again today.- Andrea

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if we can do anything.
God bless you!
Lee and Rachel Riley

Anonymous said...

Praying for Anderson!
Lee & Amy Hayes

Stephen Worley said...

You two are amazing. I don't think either of us could have written anything cogent, much less so beautifully written a week after Stephanie got here. Sorry I haven't been in touch, but you have been in my thoughts and prayers this last 10 days. Glad to hear things are going relatively smoothly, and hope it stays that way.
Hang in there.
Stephen Worley

Drew and Melissa said...

God is amazing. I Thank God for giving us prayer. Just want yall to know that we will always be here to support you guys and continue to remember you in prayer. Hope you guys return home soon and Jamie you can get back to work, so we can shut it down. Love you guys.
Drew and Melissa Wills

Anonymous said...

Continuing to pray for Anderson and for you all. Our God is so good. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us -- this couldn't have been easy. Anderson is going to be a "fighter" -- just like his Mom and Dad!
♥Kim & Tim Henderson

Selena Wix said...

Well, I think Anderson has proved that he is a fighter! My thoughts and prayers are with your family!
Love,
Selena Wix

Anonymous said...

Absolutely thrilled for you all!

the family of mannchester estate said...

I have followed for a while, but haven't written anything. We have a girly with a genetic disorder, and have struggled with focusing on the "what if's" and it steals the joy of the here and now! You guys are doing great by being determined not to focus on the "cant's" and such. Our children are gifts from God that bring us unspeakable joy. Still praying for you and your family!


Andrea, Jason, and Abigail Mann

Anonymous said...

Thank you for uplifting US with your faith and courage! As you probably know, all of us here at work (SSA) are thinking of you, both. I only wanted to add to the chorus of well-wishers and also my 2 cents to ask that you (Andrea) take care of yourself! Although not in your exact situation, I know how easy it is to forget that your body needs healing time as well. God Bless! Jane Rodriguez-Keeton and Mark Keeton. (P.S. Ito and Jacki send their best wishes, thoughts and prayers as well!)